Distribute blank index cards and tell the team they have 10 minutes to write a postcard to a person the whole team knows (i.e. an ex-colleague). When the time is up, collect and shuffle the cards before re-distributing them. Team members take turns to read out loud the postcards they got.
Collect topics in three categories: 'Dare', 'Care' and 'Share' Source:
Juliana Stepanova, inspired by the Play4Agile Orga Team
Display three categories:
… is for bold wishes, ideas and suggestions; to address pain points; anything that is important to mention but might need courage to raise
… is for troubles and worries; things that aren’t happening but should; areas for improvement
… is for any kind of information that team members want to share with each other; feedback, news, …
Ask each participant to write down at least 1 sticky note per category and set the timer to 5 minutes. Afterwards go around and let each participant read out their notes and post them in the appropriate category.
Brainstorm what behaviors to keep, drop & add and pick the top initiatives Source:
Divide a flip chart into boxes headed with 'Keep', 'Drop' and 'Add'. Ask your participants to write concrete proposals for each category - 1 idea per index card. Let them write in silence for a few minutes. Let everyone read out their notes and post them to the appropriate category. Lead a short discussion on what the top 20% beneficial ideas are. Vote on it by distributing dots or X's with a marker, e.g. 1, 2, and 3 dots for each person to distribute. The top 2 or 3 become your action items.
Let team members appreciate each other and end positively Source:
Agile Retrospectives who took it from 'The Satir Model: Family Therapy and Beyond'
Start by giving a sincere appreciation of one of the participants. It can be anything they contributed: help to the team or you, a solved problem, ...Then invite others and wait for someone to work up the nerve. Close, when no one has talked for a minute.