Everybody sums up the last iteration in 3 words Source: Yurii Liholat
Ask everyone to describe the last iteration with just 3 words. Give them a minute to come up with something, then go around the team. This helps people recall the last iteration so that they have some ground to start from.
Take a look at the team room: Does it help or hinder? Source: Corinna Baldauf
This activity works best if you hold the retrospective where (most of) the team work.
On a whiteboard, post 2 headlines: 'Our work space helps me/us ...' and 'Our work space makes it hard to ...'.
Give participants 5 minutes to write their individual answers on sticky notes – 1 idea per note. Afterwards go around the group and let everyone post their answers in the respective categories. Allow for a short discussion, e.g. using Lean Coffee (#51).
If the team have not suggested any actions without a prompt, close with 'Based on everyone's answers, what would you like to change about your setup?' to come up with action items.
If your boss had witnessed the last iteration, what would she want you to change? Source: Love Agile
Imagine your boss had spent the last iteration - unrecognized - among you. What would she think about your interactions and results? What would she want you to change? This setting encourages the team to see themselves from a different angle.
Introduce SMART goals (specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, timely) and examples for SMART vs not so smart goals, e.g.'We'll study stories before pulling them by talking about them with the product owner each Wednesday at 9am' vs. 'We'll get to know the stories before they are in our sprint backlog'. Form groups around the issues the team wants to work on. Each group identifies 1-5 concrete steps to reach the goal. Let each group present their results. All participants should agree on the 'SMART-ness' of the goals. Refine and confirm.
Let team members appreciate each other and end positively Source: Agile Retrospectives who took it from 'The Satir Model: Family Therapy and Beyond'
Start by giving a sincere appreciation of one of the participants. It can be anything they contributed: help to the team or you, a solved problem, ...Then invite others and wait for someone to work up the nerve. Close, when no one has talked for a minute.